Archive - Jul 2, 2008

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McCain's Character Flaw: Top 10 Anger Moments

There is no lack of documentation on John McCain’s anger management problems. The Media has done its share to report on just a few of those incidents but its true implications have never been entertained. What does this character flaw mean and what are some examples of McCain loosing his cool?

Psychologists claim that, “anger causes a loss in self-monitoring capacity and objective observability.” The Washington Post wrote an article about 10 years ago on McCain and his temper tantrum. So here is a list of McCain behaving non-Presidential like by stating:

1) "F- - - you!" @ Senator John Cornyn [New York Post]
2)  “A - - hole” @ Senator Pete Domenici [Newsweek]
3) “F- - -ing Jerk” @ Senator Charles Grassley [Newsweek]
4) Yelled and Humiliated Young Volunteert [The Arizona Republic]
5) Told Senator Kennedy to “Shut-up” [Boston Globe]
6)  “Sh- - Head” @ fellow Senator [NewsMax]
7)  “F - - - you” @  Republican Senator [NewsMax]
8) “C- - -” @ Cindy McCain [Raw Story]
9) Got Mad at Foreign Diplomat [The New York Times]
10)  Screamed and Acosted Senator Richard Shelby [Boston Globe]

Olberman does a great job of reviewing this issue in the YouTube video to the right. This begs the question of whether this type of behavior is appropriate for a President. It is fellow Republican Senators that do not agree with McCain’s approach. In fact that is why most of them did not support him during his bid in 2000. Those actions speak loudly. People that know him well and interact with him on a daily basis are turned off by his behavior. Bob Smith, a New Hampshire Republican claims, “His temper would place this country at risk in international affairs, and the world perhaps in danger. In my mind, it should disqualify him." McCain has even admitted that as an “angry 2-year-old, he would hold his breath until he lost consciousness.”

We dealt for 8 years with an incompetent President . . . can we really afford an someone that can not control their emotions? If the qualifications for U.S. President are someone that can not control their temper and is a geriatric . . . then all of sudden folks across America that live in retirement homes have become front runners for the GOP.


My Policy on Lost & Found

There is no official policy on Lost & Found and local customs do not dictate a coherent or logical procedure either. What is a person to do? Do we apply the “finder’s keepers rule” or attempt to find the owner by some means? It is quite simple in my opinion but I am still surprised on how many people do not adhere to a policy or tradition format in their own experiences.

I believe in Karma and that belief influences the way I shape my personal policy when it comes to finding an item that has obviously been lost. So why is that people use such vague ethics to guide them in this process? I believe it is that they sometimes feel like they have been rightfully ordained . . . blessed with their new fortune. Heck, I may just be cynical but many people become opportunistic when they find something of value. So, what is a law-abiding good hearted citizen to do when the laws or etiquette do not establish a simple solution.

It is quite simple! Everything you lose and everything you find happens for a reason. This may seem hard to grasp at first but give me a second. I believe that in life you commit actions that you may have to pay for later or be rewarded for later. Did you steal a piece of candy when you were 10? May be you lost your school lunch money two weeks later or 2 years later. You see, I genuinely believe that you are rewarded/reprimanded for your actions in life.

As an adult though what do you do when you find an item? Easy . . . find the owner or at least try to find the owner. Step back for second and empathize with the individual. How would you feel in their situation? Would you want yourself to return that item? A normal human being would say yes. So, you should do what ever it takes to find that individual with reason. I do not mean to purchase billboards and buy up local tv commercial time. Instead you may want to post a notice on Craigslist or a local meeting area etc.

How long should I search you may ask? I recommend about 2 weeks to 1 month as reasonable. Most employers have established a policy of 2 weeks for any lost items to be held and then the person that does find them may claim them. If you took the reasonable steps to find the owner and after at least 2 weeks there was no success in reuniting the owner with the artifact then you may claim it. If you still feel uneasy or guilty then donate it. Please take your body’s signals as warnings and heed to their concerns.

I hope this helps some individuals with their own dilemmas on how to handle such a situation. Remember the golden rule and of course be practical about applying this solution. If you find money donate it or keep it. It may just be life rewarding you for a good deed that you fulfilled last week.