Ezra Klein of The American Prospect gives his take on the whole Suburbs vs. City parenting debate. He notes that most families opt to raising their children in the suburbs citing it as the most ideal place to raise children. Although I may be biased since I grew up in the city, I concur with Klein's final assessment . . . the kids will be alright.
We can debate about the advantages and disadvantages of both settings but when it comes to it at the end of the day . . . as long as parents are proactive in their children's lives, everything will be okay. That is said in the most simplistic terms of course, much more is needed. There is no real advantage to growing up in the suburbs. If anything it is an illusion created to justify why people should move out 30 minutes outside of the city. Many of my college friends that grew up in Suburbia felt deprived of the city. They were intimidated by the chaotic concrete jungle and confusing parking signs. As they grew comfortable with their new settings, they grew to love the urban lifestyle. I speculate that they will run back to the suburbs to raise their own families though. I don't blame them. It is a comfort zone they wish to relive for their children. If the advantage is mental, then let it be. There is no secret though that the Suburbs are worst for the environment . . . but that is a different story.